Thursday, October 25, 2012

Hungry Ghosts and Hollow Tombs: What Halloween, O-Bon, and the Bible Have to Say About Death, Ancestors, and the After-Life

Well, the harvest is past, and the summer has ended, as they say.  Walking through the neighborhood in the evening, with a mug of hot apple cider or a well-tamped pipe, we’re embraced by the rustling and susurrus of leaves.  Now and then comes the heady smell of loam and wood fires in the brisk, autumn air.  Eldritch rings of smoke through the trees.  And we’re reminded reluctantly of the waning of the year. 

It is the one time when the old, seasonal rites of pagan circles emerge, reminding us in the West of what we’d prefer to forget.  Of the looming presence of things in the shadows, of wandering spirits and dark gods.  Little do we know how they’re watching us from the edge of the greenwood, restlessly awaiting their yearly offerings.  One hesitates to speak too loudly of the “kindly ones” or look too closely for what creatures move about amongst the trick-or-treaters on the night of Halloween.

We are passingly familiar, those of us in the West, with the three days of Halloween, the Day of the Dead, and All Soul’s Day, though we hardly know them, rooted as they are in traditions that are quite foreign to the secular, materialist mindset.  As a seasonal festival meant to pay homage or appease the spirits of the dead, it is no wonder that the old Celtic Samhain or our current Halloween triptych is celebrated all around the world by other names.  For what culture is free of the fear of death and the anger of evil spirits? 

If there were any holiday/holy-day in the West that is still tainted with pagan roots to the extent that it could pose the risk of syncretism for the Christ-follower, Halloween would be it.  If you’ll notice, I did not follow the same pattern in extolling the holiday in this post as I did with the previous introductions and appraisals to Thanksgiving, Christmas, and Easter. 

Most of us in America would never even consider the actual existence or homage to false gods during Halloween, just as we would have to concern about the pagan names of the days of the week or months.  For us those gods were defeated and long since forgotten thousands of years ago by our ancestors in Europe, except perhaps for Mammon, the god of money, greed, and commercialism.  It is vastly different in other parts of the world where such gods are continually invoked and the demand to conform to the community is ever present. 

With the Celts, Samhain ("summer's end") was the last of the three harvests.  Harvest crops and agricultural abundance are attributed to the blessing of what is regarded as ancestors,
If he were a pro-nuclear Japanese character named Pluto-kun
or, more closely, as chthonic (earthy) or tutelary deities.  The realm of the dead is closely associated with the harvest.  Sacrifices to Ceres, the pagan goddess of grain and Honey Nut Cheerios® (from whom we get the word ‘cereal’), were common at Roman funerals. Even the name Pluto means “Giver of Wealth.”  Just think: where does one find gold and precious stones?  In the underworld.

Incidentally, Jesus was in the earthen tomb for three days.  When he arose as the “firstfruits” (1 Corinthians 15:20), he told his disciples to keep praying to the Father and wait for the power of the Holy Spirit, who then came on Pentecost, the harvest festival.  But more on this later.

The History of O-Bon

In Japan, closer to the peak of summer, they observe the O-Bon Festival, which is also a three-day period.  On the other end of the year, before the cold of winter is quite lifted, they celebrate Setsubun with various quaint exorcism rites.  In doing so, they’ve conveniently divided the offerings to ancestors with the former and the offerings to oni/demons with the latter and gotten two holidays out of one.

O-Bon (お盆, or 精霊会), short for Urabonne (于蘭盆會 or 盂蘭盆會), is the Japanese pronunciation of the Sanskrit word Ulambanna (अवलम्बन).  Ulambanna means – no lie –“hanging upside down.”  In common usage, O-Bon is usually rendered as “Ancestor Day” or “The Feast of Lanterns” – which sounds a lot more friendly than something like “Festival of the Ungrateful Hanging Dead” or, as it’s more accurately known in China, “Hungry Ghost Festival” (盂蘭盆/ 盂兰盆).  Since the food for the dead spirits is offered on a special tray, the word “bon” has also come to mean the tray as well.
Mah-Na Mah-Na!

A mix of Confucianism and a veneer of folk-Buddhism, the Ulambanna Sutra is actually a Chinese story masquerading as an Indian Mahayana Buddhist text on ancestor worship, starring Buddha and one of his disciples named Mahamaudgalyayana, or Maudgalyāyana… Mahāmoggallāna… er, something like that.  The Japanese were quick to dub him ‘Mokuren.’  Good call there. 

The story goes, Mokuren is progressing along in his Buddhism pretty well and gains some special powers whereby he can divine where his dead parents wound up.


Mokuren - artist's rendition

Wait, what?  Yeah, the text is really short and glosses over this point pretty quickly.  It’s kind of like he’s one of the X-Men, only they’re born with their powers.  Kind of a thin plot device, or at least an underused one, but there was no Steve Ditko around at that time to come up with the Eye of Agamotto. (Oddly enough, the Eye was based on an actual Nepali "Amulet of Snail Martyrs."  I swear, there is no making this stuff up!)  Due to the voluntary nature of Mokuren's visionary powers of "six spiritual penetrations" and being able to journey and meet his mother later on in the realm of the hungry ghost, I can only guess that they are quasi-shamanistic in origin, but I don't know enough at all about Buddhism to make any claims.


Anyway, Mokuren's dad apparently made it to Buddhist heaven okay, but his mom unfortunately ended up being re-born in the hungry ghost level of Buddhist hell due to her stinginess in not giving money to Buddhist monks.  As punishment, she is tormented and made to hang upside down forever, unable to feed herself since ‘hungry ghosts’ have thin necks.

So Mokuren asked Buddha what could be done to help alleviate her suffering somehow.  Buddha tells him to give a bunch of expensive gifts to some monks on the fifteenth day of the seventh month, and then she can be released and allowed to be re-born on a higher level.  Mokuren follows Buddha’s instructions and, according to one account, his mother was then reborn as a dog.  Seriously.  Later, he made more hugely expensive offerings and she was finally reborn in as a human again.  Although presumably her son must have been pretty old by that time.  The original version in the sutra promises that ghosts up to seven generations back (but no more?) that receive such offerings can “enter the celestial flower light and experience limitless bliss.”

These days, however, it would seem that the rites of O-Bon only offer three days of respite from the endless upside-down suffering of one’s deceased family.  Through the influence of Confucianism, the offerings that were originally meant for monks are now directed to one’s ancestors, cutting out the middleman.  When the ancestral spirits go back to the underworld, they are guided by traditional paper lanterns set up to float in the river.  (If you think about it, not too different really from jack o’lanterns at Halloween.)  Generally speaking, the three-day O-Bon holiday is meant to be lighter in tone, like a family reunion.  However, it’s also quite common to see the month as haunted.  With the portals to hell unlocked, so to speak, people avoid making big decisions like buying a car or getting married.  Or small things like swimming and going out after dark.  After all, who knows what vengeful spirits might follow you home?

May the Amulet of Snail Martyrs of Dr. Strange protect you on your way home.

So there you have it.  The Ulambanna Sutra was written to explain why people should be nice to their parents (filial piety or 五常五倫) and pay huge amounts of money Buddhist monks so as to help ameliorate the sufferings of the spirits of the dead.  Rather like the practice of indulgences to free souls from Purgatory in Catholicism based on the transfer of religious merit points (功徳). 

All in all, pretty spooky.  Good thing October 31st is also Protestant Reformation Day, eh?


A Closer Look at the Beliefs Behind Ancestral Rites and Customs

I know that some people, even a few scholars, try to explain ancestral rites away as simply harmless socio-cultural customs, curiosities devoid of any real religious overtones.  Sorry, but I call shenanigans.  One has to bend over backwards to filter out all the religious meaning in these rites.  If I seem to be overly flippant here, that’s because this is a really serious issue. To think that billions of people have been lied to and enslaved by the few paragraphs of this sutra about the true nature of death.  I normally soft-pedal these kind of cultural festivals and customs as I discuss the world-changing implications of the message of Christ, but in this case, I almost want to take people by the shoulders and shake them.  I want to warn them of the seriousness and terrible dangers posed by these beliefs that have shaped their worldview and identity. 

When I was younger, I myself used have an allure to the occult and esoterica, dappling in all kinds of arcane lore.  I know something of what lies in the shadows.  Now I never went so far as to do any spells or anything – it was mostly antiquarian and academic, mind you.  But when I read of Goethe’s Faust, I knew there was more than a little of myself in the story.  Thankfully, God was pleased to deliver me from such infernal meditations. 

Halloween is quite real and one must be careful about opening doorways to strange spirits.  I’ve never run into any ghosts or goblins, and I haven’t seen any demon possessions or visible manifestations like some of my friends have, but the one encounter I had with a demonic presence was more than enough.

Shinto is a typical polytheist, animist religion; having a shrine to the household gods is a natural part of ancestor worship (精霊崇拝 or 祖先崇拝).  In older times, the cult of the dead had more shades of shamanism (“cult” referring to the traditional anthropological definition of “a system of ritual practices”).  These days, the so-called New Religions of Japan, which are growing as a staggering rate, are basically spirit-possessed shamanistic cults. 

The same customs are found the world over in the ancestral cults of ancient Egypt, Rome, etc.  Instead of Setsubun and O-Bon, the Romans styled their festivals with names like Feralia and Parentalia.  Instead of a butsudan or kamidana altar in their kyakuma room, the Romans had lararia altars in their atrium, along with sacella (or sacraria), and aediculae shrines.  The Japanese use memorial tablets (ihai) and sometimes pictures of their deceased, while Romans had pictures and masks called imagines

Roman cultural life revolved around the mos maiorum, or way of the elders, which informed and shaped all aspects of their life.  Culture is a mixed bag.  Essentially man-made, its language and customs shift around.  Sometimes they change for the better, sometimes not, but all of it is woven together in a tightly-knit matrix.  Some traditions are admirable, while others are misguided, or mere superstitions.

The holiday of Lemuria, for example, just like Setsubun in Japan, is about children throwing beans outside the house to wish away bad luck and evil spirits.  Of course, this light-hearted tradition, while perhaps entertaining, has no effect on protecting the family from evil spirits.  It’s like wiping one’s hands on a towel that says “Healthy” in the hopes that you won’t get the plague.  That’s a rather ridiculous example, but even so not far off from the reality of these customs.  Let me use a real-life example then.  Japanese kids will often cover their thumbs when funeral car rides by.  The word for thumb in Japanese is “oya-yubi” (親指) or parent-finger.  If they don’t cover their thumbs, then their parents will die soon.

Even if such actions as bean-tossing did have some magical protective power, the fact that the festival recurs every year belies the idea that it couldn’t be really effective.  If such an action must be done over and over each year, that would mean sometime between the festivals the bad luck/evil spirits are able to come into the house again.

The truth is, offering food, incense, and prayers, burning joss paper or “Hell Money”, or any other external act of bribery cannot erase the bad things people have done.  Not for others and not for ourselves. 

If one truly wishes to express filial piety, it must be done while one’s parents are still living.  Once they die, it is too late.  Buddha himself failed to show honor to his parents when he left them and his wife to see if he could figure out the meaning of life in a materialist universe.  He ought to have practiced what he preached.  One would do better imitating Aeneas than Buddha.  It’s ironic that Christianity is so misunderstood in East Asia; in reality, to be a Buddhist monk means to turn your back on your family.

Of course, the historical Buddha, Mr. Siddhārtha Gautama, didn’t really talk about ancestors and the after-life at all.  He was an atheist who denied the supernatural.  From dust to dust was his philosophy.  So why are Buddhist priests hired to perform Japanese funeral services?  Well, as Buddhism spread it also changed into a variety of different beliefs and practices.  It was not the more original or authentic branch of Theravada Buddhism that made its way to the shores of Japan with the Taika reform in A.D. 645, but the fuzzier mystical religion of Mahayana Buddhism.  And a diluted Japanese-version of Mahayana at that.  Japanese Jodo Shinshu (True Pure Land Buddhism), for example, might reluctantly tolerate ancestor worship, but it does not endorse such beliefs.

As missiologist Dr. Choon-Sup Bae points out, the butsudan (Buddhist altar) found is most Japanese homes today was originally set up, not for the worship of ancestral spirits (祖霊), but for buddhas and bodhisattvas.

In the "clean-unclean" principle of animistic Shinto, any contact with the dead was thought to contaminate the shrine precincts and the priests. So Shinto, the native religion, gave little attention to the dead. Already having accommodated ancestor worship in China, Buddhism was fast to shoulder services for the dead to gain a foothold in Japanese society (49).

In a way, in addition to the addressing the emotional needs of the family in showing gratitude to the deceased, one might think of the butsudan as functioning as a spiritual vending machine, the same way that fortunes, talismans, and amulets are sold at shrines and temples. 

Honoring one’s parents in Asian culture, especially from Confucianism, is a matter of propriety, what the Chinese call “li” (禮).  So too in the Bible, where the duty is enshrined in the Ten Commandments as the first and most fundamental of obligations man has to others.  The first four commandments address man’s obligations to God.

In Japan, as in much of the East, ancestor worship (精霊崇拝) is “the basic element of religious consciousness” and is “essentially a ritualized manifestation of filial piety” (Bae 10, 79).  Unfortunately, the customs involved in ancestral rites and, more importantly, the underlying beliefs to this practice take the idea of honoring one’s parents a few steps further, and in the process cross over into breaking the first two commandments against idolatry.

In Asia, the practice is blended evenly with folk religion, animism, Confucianism, Buddhism, and shamanism, depending on the country.  In the “Christendom” of the West, the dead were typically buried in the churchyard.  Under the Tokugawa regime, in an effort to stamp out Christianity, Buddhist temple registration and funeral rites were compulsory for Japanese.  Even though most Japanese I meet are avowedly non-religious, as a matter of course they still continue to practice Shinto or Buddhist religious customs, visiting shrines and temples, giving offerings, buying charms, doing pilgrimages, etc.  And, of course, ancestor worship at the family altar is a given, the foundation beneath it all. 

The various hoji/hoyo (法事) or butsuji (仏事) ceremonies along with Higan (彼岸), the festival at Spring Equinox, and various memorial services for transferring merit to ancestors (先祖供養, 追善,回向文) with much earnestness and pressing of the hands (合掌) and chanting are meant to help the deceased gradually transform from Buddhist purgatory (中陰) into a fully-fledged ancestor and eventually part of the collective mass of indiscriminate hotoke spirits in Buddhist heaven.

If we stop and think about it, part of the reasoning here is quite understandable.  In any such worldview which denies Creator God, there are gaps to fill.  Even if they believed in Him conceptually, He still could not be addressed or approached directly anymore than the Emperor would invite you or me before his throne or into his home.  Therefore, since there is no concept of any possible intimacy of relationship and an intimacy of language with a personal Creator God, there is a sense of the great gulf. 

The keenness of His absence in their lives is such that to dwell too long on this truth would be unbearably painful and so the wound must be numbed and suppressed.  Consequently, they need to fill the void with personal intermediaries that are more relatable, part human and part divine (Bae 28).  Ring any bells?  It should.  The book of Hebrews speaks of such a God who in His empathy shared in our humanity, facing all the pressures and temptations and weaknesses that we do, and, remaining pure, tasted death for us, and stands available to be our perfect intercessor (2:14-18; 4:14-16).

“Therefore he is able to save completely those who come to God through him, because he always lives to intercede for them” (Hebrews 7:25).

  

Defining the Boundaries of Orthodoxy and Orthopraxis

Some people seem to have a hard time differentiating between having a memorial service for one’s ancestors and committing idolatry.  Remembering/honoring versus venerating/worshiping.  The line of syncretism, they say, seems rather blurry to them.  We need not stumble or dissimulate over words. 

Simply ask yourself: do you talk to your ancestors with the idea that they can hear or respond to you?  Are you seeking guidance, favors, blessings, protection, or some other form of intercession from them?  Do you kowtow or make noises in the hopes that they will hear you or wake up?  Do you offer food, drink, money, sacrifice, or some other kind of valuable commodity, wishing to help them to have a better time in the after-life? 

The Lord God, Creator of Heaven and Earth, has not left us ignorant of such things.  Nowhere in Scripture are we enjoined to pray for the dead.  Indeed, divination, necromancy, and any such contact with the dead or offerings to them is forbidden as an abomination (Leviticus 19:31; 20:6; Deuteronomy 26:13-15; Psalm 106:28-29).  Sacrifices could only be made in one location to the Lord (Leviticus 17:7-9).

"The secret things belong to the Lord our God but the things revealed belong to us and to our sons forever, that we may observe all the words of this law" (Deuteronomy 29:29).

“When you enter the land which the Lord your God gives you, you shall not learn to imitate the detestable things of those nations.  There shall not be found among you anyone who makes his son or his daughter pass through the fire, one who uses divination, one who practices witchcraft, or one who interprets omens, or a sorcerer, or one who casts a spell, or a medium or a spiritist, or one who calls up the dead" (Deuteronomy 18:9-11).

Moreover, God has expressly spoken in His Word that such actions are idolatrous and a repudiation of His role as judge.  “It is appointed for a man once to die and after that to face the judgment.”  There is no changing of the Judge’s decision; it is irreversible.  I’m simplifying things a bit here for the sake of explanation, but the basic message of Scripture is that from the Judgment, the dead either enter into the Kingdom of Heaven or into Hell. Once there, they do not have any connection to those still living on earth, nor are they allowed to move from Heaven to Hell or from Hell to Heaven or to Earth or the Lower East Side of Manhattan or the Bronx or anywhere else.

There is no such thing as accumulating merit before the holy Lord God Almighty anymore than there is such as thing as transferring merit from one person to another.  We are not to seek any but God alone for guidance or protection.  He is all the power and wisdom we would ever need.

In our ESL Bible class as few weeks ago, almost out of the blue, one guy from Taiwan asked me what I thought about the practice of ancestor worship.  It’s a big issue to address and there were only about three minutes left in class so I didn’t have much time to consider and explain things.  I basically listed off a few quick points to keep in mind, which I repeat here with some elaboration and examples under each bullet point.

-The Bible is deeply concerned with honoring one’s parents, obeying them and loving them and showing our appreciation for them (Leviticus 19:32).  God is interested in one’s whole family following Him (Acts 16:31), indeed this extends to all families in the whole earth (Genesis 12:1-2).  Customs of our ancestors ought to be honored unless they are against God’s word (Mark 7:8-13, Acts 28:17).  For, after all, no man can serve two masters (Matthew 6:24).  Therefore…

- Christ promised that there would be divisions, rejection, and ostracism for following him.  In other words, there is always a cost to take into consideration before one makes the decision to become a disciple. It might mean losing our job or being rejected by our family or friends or losing our life (Matthew 10:34-39).

“What’s the big deal?” one might contend.  “Why does it have to be all or nothing?  Surely, God is big enough that He doesn’t mind sharing some of His infinite glory?  Can’t the Ark of the Covenant of the Lord of Hosts and man-made idols simply co-exist in the same dwelling?”

I’m being a bit facetious again here, but I hope it’s clear what is at stake here.  No, in spite of our modern age of relativism and pluralism, the Lord does not share His glory with others (Exodus 20:3; Isaiah 42:8; 48:11).  And no, He doesn’t much care for lifeless graven images and pagan statues.  Often in Scripture, the literal word for idol is a pejorative word, such as “little pellets of dung” (Jeremiah 50:2, Ezekiel 6:4-6, 9, 13, etc. Leviticus 26:30).  Actually, it’s used about 40 times in Ezekiel.  In the same manner, Elijah contested the gods of Baal and Asherah, and when there was no response from the gods, exclaimed, “Cry out louder to your god!  Maybe he’s napping or busy going to the bathroom!” (1 Kings 18:20-46).  Remember the case of Dagon (meaning either “fish” or “grain”)? I’ll let you read the story for yourself (1 Samuel 5:1-5), but the long and short of it is that in the end only one god will be able to demonstrate greater power over the other.

Elsewhere in the Bible, God’s people are faced with situations where they are forced to either compromise their allegiance to God or else face persecution.  The prophet Daniel chose not to defile himself by eating meat that had been sacrificed to idols (Daniel 1:8-9; see Acts 15:20, 1 Corinthians 8:17-13; 10:14-28; Revelation 2:14, 20).  Instead of merely outright refusing it, Daniel wisely offered an alternative to demonstrate the superiority of God’s ways.  Far from being seen as naïve or legalistic, God commends Daniel’s devotion and raises his status as far above all the magicians and sorcerers and wise men (1:17-20). 

Later, when Daniel is confronted with King Darius’ command to worship false gods and bow to idols, and his friends were confronted with King Nebuchadnezzar’s command to worship false gods and bow to idols, they meekly and respectfully, yet boldly, explained why they could not in do such a thing before the one true God (3:16-18; 6:1-16, 21-22).  God was pleased to rescue them from certain death and the king commended them (3:26-30; 6:25-28). 

When Paul spoke of his imprisonment and possible impending execution, his only concern was the fact that he would have enough courage to face death squarely, or else that he could remain and be of help in growing the believers (Philippians 1:20-30). 

Which overlaps with the next point: there was no question about where he would go after he died.  It was understood that at the moment of death he would immediately join Christ in heaven.  The entrance fee has already been paid, amen – Jesus provided that by suffering the shame and punishment of our sins as he hung there naked on the cross.  Christ chose to go and hang O-Bon-like from that tree and become a curse so that we would not have to (Galatians 3:13; 2 Corinthians 5:21).  Paul’s struggle then was that heaven is a one-way trip; once there he will not be able to do any more work in sharing the gospel and helping believers on earth. Thus, he had an urgency for the mission of the gospel in that small window of time (Ecclesiastes 9:4-10).

- It is clearly stated for us in Scripture that there is no concourse or communication between the living and the dead.  In the Old Testament, they knew that their loved ones would not return to them because of the finality of the grave, but only that they could go to meet their loved ones in heaven (2 Samuel 12:23; Job 7:7-10; 10:21; 16:22; Psalm 6:5).  Probably they are not even conscious of the vicissitudes what transpire on earth (Job 14:21), so consumed are they with the beatific vision of being in the presence of God (Job 19:26-27).  Jesus tells us a sutra of his own explaining that those in heaven cannot come down to help the suffering of those on earth or in hell (Luke 16:19-31) and he knows such knowledge firsthand. 

“When someone tells you to consult mediums and spiritists, who whisper and mutter, should not a people inquire of their God? Why consult the dead on behalf of the living?” (Isaiah 8:19)

Neither should it be expected that we on earth can somehow give those in heaven a better time than they already enjoy in the eternal bliss of the presence of God.  “In Your presence is fullness of joy; in Your right hand are pleasures forevermore” (Psalm 16:11).  For those in Heaven, where there is no pain or sorrow, they would not want to return to earth even if they were permitted to.  For those in Hell, where it is only torment and suffering, they are not allowed to return to earth for a rest from their punishment.

I guess, you could even dress up as a flower.


- Ancestors can and should be shown respect in other ways besides prayer, incense, etc. We might speak of them often and of the influence of the legacy they left us.  We might visit graves and clean their tombstones and put flowers on the grave simply as a sign of our respect, not as a means to please them as if they were still near or could hear and respond to us.


To these brief reminders, I would add that Jesus explains to a woman of Samaria that he is greater than Jacob, who is the ancestor of both of them (John 4:12).  In fact, he is greater than Abraham, the founding father of the nation (John 8:58).  He redirects her spiritual focus away from those ancestors and traditions and back to himself, declaring, “You worship what you do not know; we worship what we know, for salvation is from the Jews.  But the hour is coming, and is now here, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for the Father is seeking such people to worship him. God is spirit, and those who worship him must worship in spirit and truth” (John 4:22-24; see 14:6).

His disciples returning, astonished to see him talking so with a woman, not to mention, she also happened to be a Samaritan and likely even a harlot, they nervously try to change the subject and have lunch.  But Jesus continues to unfold his teaching about the true nature of worshiping God, curiously speaking of the Samaritan village as a harvest field whose fruit is now ready to be reaped.


Showing Respect to Ancestors in a God-honoring Manner

Every single day Christians in Japan and China and countries around the world face similar crossroads during holidays and festivals or funerals or simply being in a house with pagan altars.  Concerning the Roman household gods, Tertullian in a letter to his wife advised of the dangers of Christians marrying pagans.  Surely, a Christian wife would be “tormented by the vapor of incense each time the demons are honored, each solemn festivity in honor of the emperors, each beginning of the year, each beginning of the month” (Ad Uxorem, 6.1.).

As a sacramental ritual, ancestral rites are to traditional folk religion and animistic cultures what the sacrifice of the Mass is to Catholic cultures.  In both cases, the use of intermediary spirits is used to help bridge the gap between them and the Most High God.  For Japanese, the emphasis is more on either propitiating or somehow seeing to the needs of deceased relatives.  The deceased in turn can provide protection, guidance, and such.  Even for self-professed atheists, the practice is cathartic and psychologically fulfilling.

Well, Christians have their own sacramental ritual that also involves mystical union or fellowship.  Two rather potent ones, in fact: Baptism and Holy Communion, or the Lord’s Supper.  Instead of celebrating the Lord’s Supper only a few times a year, in an individualist manner with all parties facing toward the podium or front, it could be done as it originally was, like the love feasts of old, with believers eating together with whole loaves of bread rather than just wafers, facing each other around tables.  Feet-washing optional.

“It is good for our hearts to be strengthened by grace, not by eating ceremonial foods, which is of no benefit to those who do so. We have an altar from which those who minister at the tabernacle have no right to eat” (Hebrews 13:9-10).

In addition to these regular celebrations of participating in the Lord’s Supper, Japanese Christians can have more memorial services or liturgies that provide opportunities for family get-togethers or reunions in order to focus especially on the deceased.  Furthermore, for them to visit graves for funerals or on their own to show respect is to be commended.  They can show their respects by cleaning the gravestones and bringing flowers, though food or drink or incense offerings, of course, would not be appropriate.  For attending family members that are not Christians, it would be good for them to see the Christians give a speech explaining their actions and sharing the hope of the gospel, or a prayer to the Lord expressing gratitude for the loved one.

Japanese Christians should also remember how important genealogies are in the Bible.  Family histories are listed regularly, from Adam our first ancestor, to the genealogies of Christ.  It might be good for them to record their own family tree in a family Bible as an heirloom or to have available at funerals or in the place of a butsudan.  Often there is such a blank page already provided.

While I'm not specifically addressing the missiology of encountering pagan festivals here, I lately came upon Simon Cozens post "Beating the Bounds", and while I often don't whole-heartedly go for all such conclusions, his point about festivals that are "public, celebratory, inclusive, participatory, and bestowing blessings widely" is simply not to be missed.


To the Non-Believer: Is There any Real Hope that Lasts Beyond the Grave?

My take-away from Halloween is this.  It reminds us that evil spirits are very much real and dangerous, but at
the same time, the power of the Lord Jesus is far stronger.

 Indeed, strictly speaking, pagan gods are no gods at all, but merely evil spirits with masks (Isaiah 37:19; Jeremiah 2:11, 5:7; 1 Corinthians 8:4-6; 10:18-22; Galatians 4:8; 1 John 4:1).

 Jesus casts out demons all the time with but a word.  Yes, that includes Hindu Pretas, Roman Manes, and even Japanese Yomotsu-shikome (Matthew 11:4-6).


Jesus is the true Lord of the Harvest (Matthew 9:38) to whom all prayers must be directed.

He is the only one who was conquered the power of sin and death (Romans 6:8-10; Colossians 2:13-15; 2 Timothy 1:10; Hebrews 2:14-15).

The Greeks spoke of there being a judge who is the “holder of the keys” to the Underworld, the kleidouchos (κλειδοῦχος).  In Japan, they have statutes of an angry-faced Emma (閻魔), a borrowing of the Yama of Hinduism/Buddhism.  Lord Jesus lives forever and holds the keys of death and Hades. (Revelations 1:18).  He is the Lord and Judge of the Living and the Dead (Acts 10:34-43; Romans 14:9; 2 Timothy 4:1).  And thus He speaks lion-like with all the authority of a king in his royal imperatives (Luke 9:60; John 5:25).

We must all stand before him and give account of our life (Hebrews 4:13; Matthew 12:37; Luke 12:15-21; Romans 14:10-12; 2 Corinthians 5:10-11; 1 Peter 4:5). 

He is the only mediator between God and man (1 Timothy 2:5-6; Acts 4:12), whom we must turn to in repentance and put our trust in him.

We need not fear any demon when Christ has come and given “incomparably great power for us who believe.  That power is the same as the mighty strength he exerted when he raised Christ from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every name that is invoked” (Ephesians 1:19-21).

Like Paul teaches, “Therefore God exalted him to the highest place and gave him the name that is above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth,
and every tongue acknowledge that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.” (Philippians 2:9-11)

If the name of Jesus is the highest there is, we would do well to heed him, to come to him for the life he offers and thereby escape the kind of judgment that Mokuren's mother suffered so much.  Let us bring all of family to hear his voice and live:   
“For just as the Father raises the dead and gives them life, even so the Son also gives life to whom He wishes. For not even the Father judges anyone, but He has given all judgment to the Son, so that all will honor the Son even as they honor the Father. He who does not honor the Son does not honor the Father who sent Him.
Truly, truly, I say to you, he who hears My word, and believes Him who sent Me, has eternal life, and does not come into judgment, but has passed out of death into life. 
Truly, truly, I say to you, an hour is coming and now is, when the dead will hear the voice of the Son of God, and those who hear will live. For just as the Father has life in Himself, even so He gave to the Son also to have life in Himself; and He gave Him authority to execute judgment, because He is the Son of Man. Do not marvel at this; for an hour is coming, in which all who are in the tombs will hear His voice, and will come forth; those who did the good deeds to a resurrection of life, those who committed the evil deeds to a resurrection of judgment.”                                                - John 5:21-29



Reference: "Ancestor Worship and the Challenges it poses to the Christian Mission and Ministry", Dissertation by Choon-Sup Bae, University of Pretoria, 2007.

Appendix:

If there’s one common refrain in the Old Testament about the people of Israel, it is that they were prone to syncretism, that is, to be unfaithful to God by prostituting themselves out to the worship of others gods.  In the days of the early church, Christ-followers living in the Roman world had the same kind of pagan atmosphere.  Sometimes the threat was overt and life-threatening and sometimes it meant disgrace in one’s family.  For example, Pliny the Younger wrote about how the Christians were made to offer a prayer with incense and wine to Emperor Trajan’s image and to curse Christ, or else be tortured and killed.  In Japan under the Tokugawa Shogunate, Christians were ordered to step on a stone image of Christ.  Would you do it?

Below are some relevant Scripture references.  There are far too many to list them all, so only some will be written out.  There's a pattern you might see.

Concerning food polluted by idols: Acts 15:20, 1 Corinthians 8:17-13; 10:14-28; Revelation 2:14, 20.

Concerning the abundance of shrines: Jeremiah 2:28; 11:12-13; 2 Kings 17:29-34; 2 Chronicles 28:24-25.

General verses on idolatry and serving the Lord God alone:

Genesis 31:30-35; 35:1-4
Leviticus 26:30
Numbers 25:1-9
Joshua 24:14-24

Deuteronomy 7:26
You shall not bring an abomination into your house, and like it come under the ban; you shall utterly detest it and you shall utterly abhor it, for it is something banned.

Other versions read:

Neither shalt thou bring an abomination into thine house, lest thou be a cursed thing like it: but thou shalt utterly detest it, and thou shalt utterly abhor it; for it is a cursed thing. (KJB)

Never bring a disgusting idol into your house. If you do, you and the idol will be destroyed. Consider it detestable and disgusting. It must be destroyed. (God's Word® Translation (©1995)

Deuteronomy 12:3-4
You shall tear down their altars and dash in pieces their pillars and burn their Asherim with fire. You shall chop down the carved images of their gods and destroy their name out of that place. You shall not worship the LORD your God in that way.

Deuteronomy 12:29-31
 29"When the LORD your God cuts off before you the nations whom you go in to dispossess, and you dispossess them and dwell in their land, 30take care that you be not ensnared to follow them, after they have been destroyed before you, and that you do not inquire about their gods, saying, 'How did these nations serve their gods?—that I also may do the same.' 31 You shall not worship the LORD your God in that way, for every abominable thing that the LORD hates they have done for their gods, for they even burn their sons and their daughters in the fire to their gods.

Deuteronomy 18:10-14
*Deuteronomy 26:13-15

1 Samuel 12:21
And do not turn aside after empty things that cannot profit or deliver, for they are empty.

1 Kings 3:3
Solomon loved the LORD, walking in the statutes of David his father, only he sacrificed and made offerings (or burned incense) at the high places.

1 Kings 22:43
He walked in all the way of Asa his father; he did not turn aside from it, doing right in the sight of the LORD. However, the high places were not taken away; the people still sacrificed and burnt incense on the high places.

2 Kings 12:3
Only the high places were not taken away; the people still sacrificed and burned incense on the high places.

2 Kings 14:4
Only the high places were not taken away; the people still sacrificed and burned incense on the high places.

2 Kings 15:4
Only the high places were not taken away; the people still sacrificed and burned incense on the high places.

2 Kings 15:35
Only the high places were not taken away; the people still sacrificed and burned incense on the high places.

2 Kings 16:4
He sacrificed and burned incense on the high places and on the hills and under every green tree.

2 Kings 17:11
And there they burned incense on all the high places as the nations did which the LORD had carried away to exile before them; and they did evil things provoking the LORD.

2 Kings 17:15
They despised his statutes and his covenant that he made with their fathers and the warnings that he gave them. They went after false idols and became false, and they followed the nations that were around them, concerning whom the LORD had commanded them that they should not do like them.

2 Kings 18:4
He removed the high places and broke down the sacred pillars and cut down the Asherah. He also broke in pieces the bronze serpent that Moses had made, for until those days the sons of Israel burned incense to it; and it was called Nehushtan.

2 Kings 22:17
Because they have forsaken Me and have burned incense to other gods that they might provoke Me to anger with all the work of their hands, therefore My wrath burns against this place, and it shall not be quenched.

2 Kings 23:5
He did away with the idolatrous priests whom the kings of Judah had appointed to burn incense in the high places in the cities of Judah and in the surrounding area of Jerusalem, also those who burned incense to Baal, to the sun and to the moon and to the constellations and to all the host of heaven.

2 Chronicles 25:14-16

2 Chronicles 34:4

“The sorrows of those who run after another god shall multiply;
    their drink offerings of blood I will not pour out
    or take their names on my lips.
The Lord is my chosen portion and my cup;
    you hold my lot.
The lines have fallen for me in pleasant places;
    indeed, I have a beautiful inheritance.
I bless the Lord who gives me counsel;
    in the night also my heart instructs me.
I have set the Lord always before me;
    because he is at my right hand, I shall not be shaken.
Therefore my heart is glad, and my whole being rejoices;
    my flesh also dwells secure.
For you will not abandon my soul to Sheol,
    or let your holy one see corruption.
You make known to me the path of life;
    in your presence there is fullness of joy;
    at your right hand are pleasures forevermore. (Psalm 16:4-11)

*Psalm 106:28-29

Isaiah 65:3
A people who continually provoke Me to My face, Offering sacrifices in gardens and burning incense on bricks;

Isaiah 65:7
Both their own iniquities and the iniquities of their fathers together,” says the LORD. “Because they have burned incense on the mountains And scorned Me on the hills, Therefore I will measure their former work into their bosom.”

Jeremiah 11:12-13
Then the cities of Judah and the inhabitants of Jerusalem will go and cry to the gods to whom they burn incense, but they surely will not save them in the time of their disaster.  For your gods are as many as your cities, O Judah; and as many as the streets of Jerusalem are the altars you have set up to the shameful thing, altars to burn incense to Baal.

Jeremiah 18:15
For My people have forgotten Me, They burn incense to worthless gods And they have stumbled from their ways, From the ancient paths, To walk in bypaths, Not on a highway,

Jeremiah 32:29
The Chaldeans who are fighting against this city will enter and set this city on fire and burn it, with the houses where people have offered incense to Baal on their roofs and poured out drink offerings to other gods to provoke Me to anger.

Ezekiel 6:4

Jonah 2:8
Those who cling to worthless idols turn away from God’s love for them.

Hosea 4:13

Hosea 11:2
But the more they were called, the more they went away from me.  They sacrificed to the Baals and they burned incense to images.

Monday, October 8, 2012

二十八回 アドナイ・エレ修養会

This weekend was the 28th Annual Texas and Oklahoma Japanese Christian Retreat.  That's not the official name, but it's a good description, if a tad long.  This year it was at Latham Springs, near Aquilla, TX, which is around the corner from Waco.  

To be honest, I wasn't really looking forward to a nearly four hour drive to the middle of Texas, especially after driving to Amarillo and back last month (twenty hours).  Also, when my friend invited me, I wasn't all that keen to go considering how poor my Japanese is and that other glaring fact that I'm not Japanese.  And I would only know like two people there.  (Unfortunately, of the forty-some Japanese Christians I know of in Houston, only four of us made it out there to represent.  Actually, three, if you don't count me.)

Still, I figured it might be a good chance to get to meet some Japanese who were fellow Texans as well as brothers and sisters in Christ.  I also would find out that this would probably be Pastor Takarada's last time since he plans to move on from Japanese Baptist Church of North Texas.



Brrr.  Pretty chilly and overcast.



I stayed in a dorm room with eight other guys, but no one was in this place at the end
of the road to tell me to get off the deck.
I didn't make the Friday evening part since my friend advised against trying to find the place along back country roads in the dark, so I drove up early Saturday morning.  Like 3:30 a.m.  When I poked my head out of the car around sunrise, I was shocked to find that a cold front had come in and it was a good thirty degrees cooler than it had been in Houston.  Needless to say, I didn't anticipate the need to pack a hoodie or jacket or Japanese カイロ hand-warmers.  (Late Saturday night, some of the folks made a camp fire with s'mores, but I turned in before that.  Must be getting old.)

The fellowship was wonderful.  There was a cozy level of familiarity even among strangers.  Of course, there were fun times like finding out we knew people in common or had visited someone's hometown before in Japan.  It's just a shame most of them live so far away - sweet, dear people that I would begin to miss as soon as we had cleared away the tables and chairs from lunch on Sunday and packed up to go.

 

The trails skirting the retreat ground were pretty nice and came near to touching the Brazos River at a few points.  I also saw some turkeys a couple times, but never could get a clear picture before they scuttled off.

There was plenty of singing, teaching messages, testimonies, small group prayer, and even a talent show including everything from a juggler to comedy to a skit of Joshua and the Battle of Jericho to an obaachan-style Jewish dance.  One of my favorite moments would have to be when Pastor Kroeger's wife, who is nearly blind, was gently led up to the stage and, in the most heavenly voice, sang songs like "Turn Your Eyes Upon Jesus." 

Marching around with the Ark (omikoshi?)

Rather spry and にぎや


So a taste of Japan, some new friends, and a bit of nature to boot.  All in all, a memorable weekend.  Next year will be hosted in San Antonio.  If I'm Stateside then, I hope to see you there too.  Gotta start planning for what we'll do for the talent show.  I'm thinking manzai


Tuesday, October 2, 2012

How to Deal with Japanese (When You Don’t Really Want to): A Love Letter


As he approached Jerusalem and saw the city, he wept over it and said, “If you, even you, had only known on this day what would bring you peace—but now it is hidden from your eyes. The days will come upon you when your enemies will build an embankment against you and encircle you and hem you in on every side […] because you did not recognize the time of God’s coming to you.” – Luke 19:41-44


So this whole Senkaku/Diaoyu Islands brouhaha between Japan and China (and Taiwan) has brought up several common idioms in recent English lessons: “can of worms”, “the elephant in the room”, “walking on egg shells”, “to make waves”, “don’t rock the boat”, and the like.  These kind of territorial disputes are one more item on the long list of subjects that are taboo, which is unfortunate since such nationalist distempers only continue to seethe and fester until someone finally takes the needle and lances the boil.  Now if you’ll forgive that rather graphic imagery, in the spirit of such idioms let us delve a bit into the often maddening and exasperating experience of broaching the unspoken in Japanese culture.

There have been unconfirmed reports
of a “smoke monster” on the island
(Source: The Hanso Foundation).
To be sure, the Senkaku Islands with their recently discovered huge natural gas pockets as well as their function as boundary markers for territorial waters are quite lucrative.  Whether China and Japan can resolve this without going to war over them remains to be seen.  I personally think that caution is the better part of valor in this case.  Let us remember that Japan is still a de-militarized nation while nuclear China has combined military forces of around 7.5 million strong, with 40 million in reserve.  Japan seriously underestimated the industrial production of America in WWII; hopefully the West will not do the same dismissive analysis of Chinese factories.

Furthermore, as a superpower, it’s almost expected that China would flex its muscles some.  When the Japanese arrested that Chinese fisherman in those waters that rammed their Coast Guard vessels in 2010, rather than civilly trying to have their man freed, China erupted in a retaliatory firestorm of rabid fervor, throwing up economic sanctions on rare earths and silicon, with protests and rioting in the streets.  Japan meekly backed down.  In return, China demanded an apology and compensation.  Later in the year a Chinese trawler rammed a Korean Coast Guard ship in Korean waters.  So this recent spark where Japan quietly (others might say surreptitiously) bought the islands from a private Japanese individual, immediately after an APEC meeting with the Chinese President... well, they should have expected this kind of reaction.  It’s like Japan ripped off a scab, then China poured salt on it.

The sleeping dragon is awake.  By all accounts, China is just waiting for the opportune time to take a bite.  Japan must exercise the utmost in prudence (or have its bigger brother nearby) before poking or prodding it.

(Have you seen Japan’s recruitment posters for their police force or Self-Defense Forces?  I wish I had taken pictures of some of them, like the skinny police officer with a big thumbs-up, all goofy smiles and giggles.)

Technically not a recruitment poster, but you get the point.
















Of course, on the Japan side of things much of the fiery rhetoric to foment this conflict can be laid directly on firebrand ultra-nationalist Tokyo Governor Ishihara.  The next set of elections will be very telling if he is re-elected… for the fifth time.

"I know, it's crazy, right?  They just keep voting for me, no matter what
ridiculous things I do.  Maybe I should just go ahead and
remove term limits and save the trouble of elections..."
That’s right.  Japan has had seven prime ministers in six years (if my math holds), but Ishihara has been governor ever since 1999.  And the prime minister six years back, Koizumi, who notably held on from 2001-2006, visited the infamous Yasukuni Shrine six times, provoking outcry from Chinese and Koreans and a cutting off of diplomatic relations.  To the distant observer it would seem that the more nationalist a politician is the better his support among Japanese voters. 

Let me add that post-Article 9 Japan as a whole has a giant co-dependency issue with the U.S.  Militarily, America has pampered her to the point of atrophied muscles and an unrealistic outlook, the same way a 30-year old NEET (young people not in education, employment or training) still living with his parents is stunted with issues with solipsism.  Ishihara might voice that Americans are racially inferior to Japanese, and the Japanese military needs to be ready to put down foreigners and immigrants -basically Koreans and Chinese- if they cause trouble after a natural disaster (like the Japanese mobs did to them in 1923), but there is one thing he gets right - the dire need for Japan to assert itself and to grow up, independent of the American military.  Hopefully, with a level-headed leader when the time comes.

"Hey China, why all the fuss?  Besides, all your base are belong to us," said Fire Lord Ozai,
as he awaits Sozin's Comet to help him destroy the Earth Kingdom.
In another light, however, all these protests and political posturing, as is often the case, goes deeper than that.  The islands are but a convenient pretense, an excuse for the dragon to let off some steam.  China has a long memory, as well they should.  My Chinese (and Korean) friends tell me they are afraid of Japan attacking them.  They claim that nothing’s changed in the character of the Japanese deep down, specifically in their ethno-centric arrogance and susceptibility to mob mentality.  My mild-mannered Japanese friends on the other hand claim that’s ridiculous; it’s the war-mongering Chinese who are doing all the saber-rattling.

But Japan of all countries should know better than that.  If anyone should be able to understand a victim’s mindset they should.  Every year they commemorate the atomic annihilation of Hiroshima and Nagasaki from a ground zero viewpoint, stripped of any historical context, and reinterpreted solely in terms of the helpless victims being attacked out of the clear blue sky by America.

And yet on the other side of the world, we have all made friends with Germany.  There is no lingering doubt concerning their contrition.  The Germans have completely eschewed any notion of being victimized like they claimed after WWI.  Japanese politicians and textbooks are a different story.  No wonder then that China can’t seem to erase the brutality of Nanking from its collective memory – if for no only reason than that their Japanese neighbors forgot all about it long ago, if they ever even knew.  No, actually even that’s not true - it’s far worse; they dutifully remember one very specific part of it: to pray at shrines like Yasukuni for the souls of the ravaging Japanese soldiers that were involved.

For America, the closest thing we have to approximate that kind of deep scar on the public memory would be Pearl Harbor.  Of course, we’ve forgiven the Japanese a long time ago for that, but the lesson surrounding the circumstances was most instructive.  In hindsight, there is definite truth to the fact that America was simply caught off guard and it was our own damn fault for not being on the alert.  We didn’t anticipate it, and so paid the consequences, and then tried to rationalize how such a tragic miscalculation could occur.  But we say December 7th is a “a date which will live in infamy” due to the fact that the attack occurred, as fate would have it, without a formal declaration of war required by the Hague Convention, while Japanese diplomats were still in peace negotiations with the President Roosevelt.  The recently discovered wartime diary of Japan's general staffs of the navy and army has a revealing entry for Dec. 7th: “our deceptive diplomacy is steadily proceeding toward success.”  Such gambits in war are risky – they only work if you win.

The attack on the USS Panay in 1937 should have been a big clue anyway.  Later, we would receive more painful lessons for being too trusting and giving Japan the benefit of the doubt.  My grandfather told me stories of WWII from his time in the Navy.  When Japanese surrendered after a battle and were lined up on the beach to be taken away, the American soldiers would let down their guard.  One of the Japanese toward the back of the line would have a machine gun hidden and, as the ones before him ducked, then proceeded mow down the Americans.  Pretty quickly, American soldiers learned not to trust a Japanese surrender and in general to turn a leery eye on whatever they claim, which China and other countries already knew firsthand.  Such actions seems out of place for a country seemingly so obsessed with honor.  Of course, a careful look at Japanese history would reveal otherwise.  Gekokujō (下克上 or 下剋上), for example, is a concept of justifying otherwise dishonorable attacks if done out of a “noble” motive.  Sounds like somebody took a page right out of the Koran playbook.

So decades pass.  Elephants and cans of worms and measured, diplomatic smiles.

Today, of course, it’s hard to find a more courteous and peace-loving people.  Japanese have in many ways been a model of such civil behavior.  Though if you want to look deeper, you can find stories in the news of an old, crippled Nepalese man being kicked to death in the street with no one intervening to help – January of 2012 in Osaka if you feel the need to fact-check me. 
Sneaky bastards like this cartoon
character... whom Jesus died for.

Of course, not all Japanese are sneaky bastards.  Some of the most wonderful people I know are Japanese and I’m honored to be counted as a friend.  (I trust they'll remain my friends even after reading this essay.)  As a side note, I’m rather disappointed with the Chinese and Japanese Christians that I know for not taking the lead in seeking reconciliation – after all, they are brothers and sisters.

I’m not here to make a case for whether or not Japan might revive its imperialist past.  It’s a moot point anyway; their willful ignorance of history says it all.  “In war,” Aeschylus said, “truth is the first casualty.”  The thing is, human nature is basically all the same; you can write yourself a whole new constitution and New Year’s Resolutions, but the old sin nature we all carry inside won’t be sanitized so easily.

It might just well be self-explanatory at this point, but The Economist lays it out so:
The media of all countries play on prejudice that has often been inculcated in schools. Having helped create nationalism and exploited it when it suited them, China’s leaders now face vitriolic criticism if they do not fight their country’s corner. A recent poll suggested that just over half of China’s citizens thought the next few years would see a “military dispute” with Japan.

The islands matter, therefore, less because of fishing, oil or gas than as counters in the high-stakes game for Asia’s future. Every incident, however small, risks setting a precedent. Japan, Vietnam and the Philippines fear that if they make concessions, China will sense weakness and prepare the next demand. China fears that if it fails to press its case, America and others will conclude that they are free to scheme against it.
None of this is new to anyone who stayed awake in history class.  Right of conquest aside, the legitimate ownership of the islands is more of an academic question (and I think obvious enough to the unbiased mind).  But the practical question, which I’ve taken the scenic route to get to, is what does negotiating with Japanese mean to you and me on the day-to-day level? 

Taking It Personally

Most of us don’t have to negotiate through the kind of damned-if-you-do-damned-if-you-don’t Kobayashi Maru of territorial claims and political squabbles, but we might have to collaborate over work projects together, struggle to get over a misunderstanding, or just try to be friends.  As foreigners living and working with Japanese, we are used to their politely awkward mannerisms when it comes to taboo topics and toe the line between curiosity and offense as best we can.  But, topics of nationalism and pride aside, there comes a point when all of the walls begin to get to us and for a simple heart-to-heart conversation things start to feel downright claustrophobic.  I’m thinking of the movie The Last Samurai, how Captain Algren (Tom Cruise) was literally shut out from the others by having the doors slid in his face.

Please excuse me while I close this honorable door in your face.
In the interest of full disclosure, I should say I am more biased than the average observer.  When I taught English in Japan in a quaint town smack in the middle of Kobe and Osaka, God taught me a lot, some hard lessons and some dear revelations.  Firstly, he plunged me down into a world of glares, disapproval, and silent condemnation.  Later, I learned this hazy cloud of heaviness had a name: shame.  And it couldn’t be shirked off or amended so easily as some external action like guilt.  It was like an invisible albatross I was made to wear for the slightest flaw or misstep.  In the midst of that, God could unpack this amazing notion we call divine grace.

Another thing He did was to take a portion of His pursuing, unconditional love He has for the Japanese people He created and planted it deep in me.  From that time on, it has been my heart to love and serve them, to have pity and compassion on their estate, to share the gospel with them, to befriend them and be there for them in their time of need.  I get visibly excited at the mention of them.  My dreams and future are inextricably bound up with them.  In short, to yearn for them, with my heart hanging way out on my sleeve.  And we all know how that story ends.  Unrequited love is no walk in the park, my friend.  I can’t help but be more sensitive, and thus feel the hurt all the sharper when attempts at friendship are rebuffed and doors are shut (sometimes literally) in my face by those I thought might be friends.

God is not surprised at the failings and betrayals of those He has set His love on.  “Now while he was in Jerusalem at the Passover Festival, many people saw the signs he was performing and believed in his name.  But Jesus would not entrust himself to them, for he knew all people.  He did not need any testimony about mankind, for he knew what was in each person” (John 2:23-25).

Jesus wasn’t fooled by people’s words.  He knows how weak our promises are and how shallow is our repentance.  But neither did that stop him from loving us.  “You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly. […] God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us” (Romans 5:7-8).

To think that despite God feeling such pain and rejection in His relationship with me, He continues all the while to pour out His deep, deep love on me.  Having experienced that mercy in our lives, His desire is for us to walk in humility and a spirit of reconciliation with those we struggle to get along with.

Walking a Mile in Their Waraji

Because Japanese are trained to be so sensitive to what others think of them, and to keep their thoughts and feelings to themselves, they strive for a stoic, almost robotic perfectionism, to excel at avoiding confrontation.  (Unfortunate that they do not come with an instruction manual.)  Eventually then relationships with them seem one-sided.  You begin to wonder that you feel no closer to them three years later than you did at the beginning.  It may not quite strike you in so many words, but you feel a vague sense of that stereotypical inscrutable impenetrability.  You’re being kept at arms-length and realize that three or thirty more years won’t make any difference.  There’s a distance of oceans between you.

And if that is the case, perhaps they aren’t interested in a genuine friendship for its own sake, but just the benefits that come along with it, like being the token American friend or source of free English practice.  You begin to get the picture that you’re merely being used.  On top of that, you begin to notice when things that they’re saying to you don’t quite add up.  After being lied to by friends or administration or co-workers or that particular girl, you might be inclined to confront them about it.  In turn, they might give a vague, perfunctory “sorry” that you both know is meaningless.  It can certainly be frustrating, even infuriating.  I know I was bothered by it when it came to dishonesty about my Japanese visa application, but I had to learn to relax and entrust the matter to the Lord.

After a while, there’s a tedium to have to constantly keep up appearances, to maintain the front – the form and formality, as impeccable and silent as a tea ceremony.  It’s hard to be friendly and generous to a stone wall.  What do you say to someone who doesn’t want to talk to you?  How do you relate to someone who doesn’t want to relate to you?

Consider for a moment things from their perspective.  We might see them as stand-offish, insular (閉 鎖 的), hollow, phony, insincere, and disingenuous (不誠実), and we’d be right half of the time.  And yet all of us know what that is like to want to be liked and approved by others.  It’s perhaps our greatest inborn desire.  God has created us to be relational, to crave a sense of belonging, and to fear rejection.  As C.S. Lewis said,
“To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket, safe, dark, motionless, airless, it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. To love is to be vulnerable.”
So in the course of their relationships, they become experts at bottling up their inner feelings, hurts, pain, bitterness, resentments, and anger, but after a while of all of this begins to take its toll on the psyche.  And while they might seem used to hiding their true feelings and putting up a front of polite fiction, can you imagine the strain and tension demanded to keep any insecurities at bay?  It’s a wonder we don’t see them collapsing in the streets from nervous breakdowns.

To look at a few of their own idioms and expressions when it comes to easing away from confrontation and aggression, they say, “臭い物に蓋”, which literally means to put a lid on smelly things.  That is, to ignore it, deny it, or try not to bring up unpleasant, contentious things because of the premium on harmony, or “peace at all costs.”   

薮をつついて蛇を出す – Poke a bush , a snake comes out.  As we would say, “Let sleeping dogs lie.”

見目より心 – Heart over appearances.  Substance is more important than form.

瓜田李下 – Melon field, under a plum tree.  Or, “Avoid the appearance of evil (that you might be there to steal that fruit).”

後悔は決して最初に来ない - Repentance never comes first.  (I assume boycotts and rioting come first.)

Lastly, the death poem of the eccentric monk Ryōkan, goes:

裏を見せ
表を見せて
散る紅葉

Translated, we could say, “Now showing its back side, now its front side, the maple leaf falls.”  The idea being that as autumn leaves twirl to the earth there is no hidden side.  It’s a beautiful idea, and one that goes against the grain of culture, usually expressed in such dichotomic terms like Tatemae/Honne (outer impression/true feeling), Ura/Omote (hidden side/public appearance), Uchi/Soto (inside of the group/outside).

With this in view, it’s no wonder that shame cultures would prefer to solve disagreements in a more private, circumspect way.  These public spectacles over the islands, including mass rioting and boats firing water cannons, is uncharacteristically jingoist and therefore all the more alarming. 

Now both sides understandably say that losing the islands would be “a national humiliation.”  My question for Japan is are they troubled by the fact that they are distrusted and despised by their neighbors? 

The world might see China increasingly as a bully, but to the Asian world Japan is still the main bully.  (Just as to much of the Middle Eastern world and other places, America is seen as the world bully.)  There’s truth on both sides.  The common trait to all bullies is arrogance. Without humility, one cannot expect to fully and truly and lastingly repent of one’s past sins.

The insincerity of Japanese contrition is going to come back and bite them in a big way.  My friend Lorel said, “theirs is a culture that is incredibly obsessed with form, at the expense of substance.  Prayer, fasting, devotions--these can become ‘empty’ rituals for them.  They need to learn, above all things, the importance of truth, and honesty as a necessary attitude to see the truth. As it is, they are taught to hide and deny the truth.”

I’m reminded of Proverbs 14:9, “Fools mock at making amends for sin, but goodwill is found among the upright.”

None of us read the same history books growing up.  It is crucial to be able to openly and civilly dialogue together and not take things so personally.  Chinese and Japanese, Koreans and Japanese, American and Japanese, etc. 

Once we can understand the information and history and personal connections coming from our enemies, we have to re-prioritize our values and discard the notion that superficial harmony is so valuable.  Then can we could focus more on the goal of friendship, not because we agree on everything, but because we love and respect each other.  If there is no place in one’s culture for forgiveness and reconciliation, that merely indicates that your culture is too self-conscious or status-conscious.  That kind of self-centered idea is unhealthy and wrong and needs to be amended.  A true friendship has roots that go deep.  It can weather political storms and outlast disagreements. 

One of the sad deficiencies of a worldview like Shintoism is that it has a poor definition of sin in the first place, which is a categorical mistake.  It is seen merely as an external indiscretion or blemish that can be brushed off or waved away like so much dust on the furniture.  A few types of ‘indiscretions’ however are seen as especially grievous socially and therefore bring on extraordinary abasement and condemnation, with no real way to effectively expiate, purge, or clean oneself of the guilt, to forgive or be forgiven, and restored in relationship.  One can see how this is foundational, with ripples affecting all levels of society.  But if we can be the first to understand what sin truly means (hint: it’s in the Bible), humble ourselves, and repent in sincerity, and then treat others with grace upon grace, imagine the impact.

Obviously, there’s quite a bit re-learn and we can’t do it all here.  Might I suggest getting together for tea or coffee sometime?  We can talk about some of our favorite books and watch the maple leaves fall.  Perhaps Aristotle’s Nicomachean Ethics or C.S. Lewis’ The Four Loves or something you happen to have by Ryōkan.  I’d be content to simply meditate together on what is meant by that wondrous verse in Paul’s letter to the Ephesians, “For He himself is our peace, who has made the two groups one and has destroyed the barrier, the dividing wall of hostility.”

… Now then, who’s got the bill?